Where does confidence come from? Is it something you are just born with or are we able to build confidence over time? Yes, some individuals just appear to have it. But as someone who had it, lost it entirely, and had to build it all back from scratch, I'm going to say you can do some pretty interesting things with building some iron belief in your life.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or perhaps you just want some more because you know how much it would aid you with making big decisions. But truly, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long-lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that most people frequently overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of life's magic. You see, when you really nail the small stuff, the huge things get more possible. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of targeting the small things that actually set us up for failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take the time to target the practicable measure of your life, and over longer bouts of time start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is absolutely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get put off when they try something big in life and fail. Actually the majority will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some heavy momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and again and again till you get it correct.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are really capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the really small stuff.
Perhaps you have none in your life at the moment, or perhaps you just want some more because you know how much it would aid you with making big decisions. But truly, where does this true confidence come from? There are these little things I like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long-lasting confidence comes from the activity of sweating the details, the little stuff, the things that most people frequently overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of life's magic. You see, when you really nail the small stuff, the huge things get more possible. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of targeting the small things that actually set us up for failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really take the time to target the practicable measure of your life, and over longer bouts of time start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a step back down and refocus on what you can attain, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path to success. In fact, the quantum leap is absolutely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of individuals get put off when they try something big in life and fail. Actually the majority will try something 3 times and then give up totally. But if you build some heavy momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and again and again till you get it correct.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are really capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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