Patience And Tenacity Of Purpose Are Vital In Achieving Personal Goals

By Debra Nelson


History is liberally sprinkled with individuals that were seen as great leaders, hugely successful business people, exceptional artists and celebrated scientists. May studies have been conducted to try and find out whether all of these exceptional individuals shared certain characteristics, even though their fields of endeavour differed so wildly. There are indeed certain characteristics shared by most highly successful people. Among these, patience and tenacity of purpose stand out as traits absolutely vital to success.

Being patient means that one has the ability to wait, to face problems and to deal with them calmly, to endure difficulties without annoyance and to refuse to allow circumstances or other people to make one lose faith. A patient person does not complain or try to blame others for his problems. He deals with them. This is a very helpful skill and only people that know how to be patient can actually deal with the many frustrations that life routinely offers.

Patient people should not be confused with lazy people hoping for a miracle to occur. A salesman, for example, will never get a sale if he just sits and wait for the phone to ring or for a customer to walk in. He has to identify and talk to potential clients, distribute marketing material and implement appropriate marketing strategies before he can patiently wait for results.

A person that is tenacious pursues a specific goal single mindedly. He does not allow himself to become distracted by other people or by difficulties. He believes in his goals and he pursues those goals in the full expectation that he will achieve them. In the process he will never give up or lose hope. His determination is steadfast and nothing will sway him from his course.

Tenacious people are often viewed as stubborn idealists. This is not the true meaning of being tenacious. True tenacious people have very clear and achievable goals and they simply mean to achieve those goals regardless of circumstances or any other interfering factor. They are not fools and they never pursue unrealistic goals. They believe in themselves and they firmly believe in the fact that they will prevail.

The combination of being both tenacious and patient is a very powerful one indeed. Such a person will set very specific goals and perform all the actions necessary to achieve that goal. He will deal with setbacks calmly and rationally, never losing faith in his ability to achieve what he set out to achieve. In combination, these two characteristics define a person that is, on the one hand, single minded but also, on the other hand, able to deal with problems.

Contrary to what many people believe, it is perfectly possible to unlearn negative traits and to acquire positive ones. One can definitely learn how to be tenacious and patient. Disciplines such as yoga and meditation can be of great help. There are also numerous internet resources and books on this subject. All one needs is the will to improve in this area.

Many people see tenacious people as difficult and single minded. Similarly, they see patient people as lazy individuals hoping for miracles to occur. In reality, tenacious and patient people are the ones that inevitably achieve their goals. They know what they want and they go for it.




About the Author:



No comments:

Post a Comment