When we believe in ourselves, what we are up to in life and why we are here on this planet, there is hardly any negative event that can take us off of our path.
It's only when a person begins to build themselves upon the compliments of others or suffers because of their criticisms that things begin to get really shaky. When this starts to happen, the character of the individual is in question because they are trying to appease others instead of truly being themselves.
If you want to be yourself in this world you also have to have some thick skin.
People on the outside are always looking to tear others down. It's much easier to say something negative than it is to say something positive. Also, people don't like seeing others succeed and become great at what they do. They hate it because it shines a light on their failures in life and the fact that they never made it to where they wanted to go.
So what's the solution?
Developing an iron will and a significant amount of trust.
Developing internal belief is one of the most challenging and yet rewarding things there is. In a world full of people acting like hungry wolves, they will do anything to tear you to bits when you are going after what you love and believe. But you have to stay strong and committed to what your purpose is or else you will crumble.
When you decide to make a change in your life, do it for yourself. Change because it's something that you've always wanted to do and it matters to you. Don't do it for anyone else. Don't do it because a magazine told you to do it. Do it because it's part of your vision and your purpose.
Then, when you get to the end of the line, you'll always be able to claim that you kept true to yourself no matter what. To me, that sounds like a pretty happy life.
So believe in yourself enough to go for your dreams and goals. You are capable of anything if you listen to your heart.
It's only when a person begins to build themselves upon the compliments of others or suffers because of their criticisms that things begin to get really shaky. When this starts to happen, the character of the individual is in question because they are trying to appease others instead of truly being themselves.
If you want to be yourself in this world you also have to have some thick skin.
People on the outside are always looking to tear others down. It's much easier to say something negative than it is to say something positive. Also, people don't like seeing others succeed and become great at what they do. They hate it because it shines a light on their failures in life and the fact that they never made it to where they wanted to go.
So what's the solution?
Developing an iron will and a significant amount of trust.
Developing internal belief is one of the most challenging and yet rewarding things there is. In a world full of people acting like hungry wolves, they will do anything to tear you to bits when you are going after what you love and believe. But you have to stay strong and committed to what your purpose is or else you will crumble.
When you decide to make a change in your life, do it for yourself. Change because it's something that you've always wanted to do and it matters to you. Don't do it for anyone else. Don't do it because a magazine told you to do it. Do it because it's part of your vision and your purpose.
Then, when you get to the end of the line, you'll always be able to claim that you kept true to yourself no matter what. To me, that sounds like a pretty happy life.
So believe in yourself enough to go for your dreams and goals. You are capable of anything if you listen to your heart.
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